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Three sure fire phrases you should incorporate into your pick-up vocabulary

Posted on 30. Dec, 2009 by Jonny Cruz in Dating

I have three phrases that I use to absorb a girl into my frame. These phrases have taken my game to another level in-field. Having some established phrases that are time tested under your belt can add some dynamic to your game.

One of the first things I like to dish out on a girl is the effective, "How Dare You?!??" This is great for when a girl tries to take a sip of your drink, touches you accidentally, or delivers a snide remark. Looking at her with an exasperated look and saying, "How Dare You!" as if you were royalty, shows value. I find that they usually don't have a response to this. It makes them aware of their behavior and pulls them into your frame. It is a great way to bust their balls.

Creating rapport is important when it comes to gaming an HB. One of my choice phrases to build rapport is "OMG, me too! You're starting to creep me out!" This phrase helps point out commonalities that you both have. I like to play a game in-field where I tell a girl that we are going to say our favorite flick on the count of three. I like to do this with a couple different scenarios, favorite television show, favorite cartoon growing up, etc. If you guys hit a match, its amazingly powerful. If not say, "I dig that movie too!" and give an anecdote or reason why. Don't just agree with her all the time have solid answers to the questions you ask her. What is even more powerful is if you can get your target to say, "OMG, me too!" You can guarantee attraction is blooming

My last pick would be "I don't believe you!" This is a crafty tool when it comes to re-framing. If you are getting any type of resistance from your target this can help change the direction of the interaction. Say your target says, "I'm not going home with you." You can simply look at her and say, "I don't believe you!" If she is persistent about not going home with you say, "Look, you don't even believe you!" This throws her attempt at taking control of the frame, as you are refusing to fall into her frame. It displays your value with a hint of brilliance.

Make use of these phrases and youll be on your way to creating attraction in no time -Jonny Cruz

Neil Strauss exposed the principles of becoming an powerful pick up artist and wrote them into his best selling book The Game.

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